I was thinking... They say; " Be yourself." Translation: "Be and individual just as long as you are like everyone else." Most people yearn for individuality, yet at the same time we fear that which derives from our definition of the "norm" When people are trying to stand out they act, or dress like other people, thus defeating the whole idea of individuality all together. I think a lot of people spend their lives being the self that others want them to be. Instead of spending time realizing our talents and strengths, we spend time trying to change or suppress who we really are. Of course there is refining, polishing, and growth that is needed. Why can we not be content with ourselves and celebrate people's differences? Differences of course make this life so much richer, right?
I agree, I've been learning more about my own individuality this year, though I hope having two colors of eyes isn't necessary for true individuality :)
ReplyDeleteI think its so importante to learn about YOU! because really happiness comes from knowing and being comfortable in your own skin.
ReplyDeleteJecia and Darcey,
ReplyDeleteI agree with you both of you. There is a lot of happiness that comes with being ok in your own skin. It helps us to be better balanced when we can be ok with just being ourselves. When we realize who we are we are less inclined to make wrong decisions. When we love ourselves we have the capacity to love others as well. I also think when we accept ourselves we have a better time accepting others.